Are you Writing?


There is some protection in writing during the early hours of the morning.  That is for the protection to others and not to me.  Why do I say this?  Because that is the time that I do the least damage.  You see when I am in writing mode; I become the silent monster. It is the time that I am most likely to snap or say something inappropriate that will flood my body with guilt.

My logical calm approach to steering people into a direction that will allow them to consider other people’s opinions evaporates with the steam that my fingers produce on the keyboard.

Just this morning we had to get the cats ready for their sterilization appointment. So I did not complete my word count and knew that I would have to expand into normal working hours to meet my target. One of my tribe of fellow authors who has never met the silent monster posted a very endearing image and my critical gene stepped into the arena.

Why?  because I was writing a scene in my book that had an argument in it. And the final line was, “I hate you.  I hate all of you.”  All very well when the character is an impulsive young woman feeling the pressure of the world pulling her into a direction she does not want to go in.  But not an okay attitude to bring to the social media world. I had to quickly cloak the silent monster and put it back into its writing box.

I am now a normal human being again.  But disclaimer: The silent monster does come out to wreck havoc early in the morning and on Saturdays.  So just to be safe, ask if I am writing before you engage.

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